The Founder Noel A. Bednaz's Story.

My stalker Dennis P. McCann recently infiltrated my new website "AbuseVictimsUnited.com" because he is scared to death of facing the truth about his abusive actions. Also, he hated the fact that I was rising above his abuse by creating a non-profit organization for other victims like myself. Now, I have to fight to get reinstated or choose another web hosting service. Either way, "Abuse Victims United" will NOT die! My stalker has proven something very significant by launching this recent attack against me. He has proven to be the aggressor by trying to stifle me. He doesn't want MY side of the story to be told because God forbid if someone just might believe ME and not HIM! His little dark world will crumble and he knows it. So, this is why he feels the need to attack me repeatedly in hopes that I will lay down and die for him. Well, that's just NOT going to happen and 1 way or another, I WILL get back up again regardless if he likes it or not;) Please read my TRUE story below and stay tuned to this blog for future updates regarding this issue. Also, if you have a story of abuse you wish to share, please feel free to leave me a comment. You can remain anonymous if you choose. Thanks!


This is a rather long story but it needs to be told. I'll try to be as brief and to the point as possible. 14 years ago, I became the target of a severely disturbed cyber stalker named Dennis. It all started when I joined his John Lennon discussion group at Yahoo. In the beginning, the discussions were good and I was enjoying myself. Then 1 day, another group member and I began an innocent discussion about cats. For whatever reason, this upset Dennis and he let us know it. I admit, I did get quite irritated with him because instead of asking us nicely to take the cat discussion privately, he barked out orders like a dictator. After some harsh words were exchanged, I demanded to be unsubscribed from the group which Dennis refused to do until he had enough reason to ban me. He kept pushing all my buttons to achieve his goal. Even though I was no longer in the group, Dennis continued to bash me to the other members and 1 of them came forward to let me know about it. Since the group archives were public, I could see what Dennis was saying about me. My character was being defamed and threats were being issued against me and my family by Dennis. I promptly reported his actions to Yahoo for a "Terms Of Service" violation and they terminated his account. This resulted in Dennis losing the John Lennon group I had previously been subscribed to plus all others he managed. Dennis became irate after losing all of his groups and this is when he launched his campaign against me. A libelous website was created and as of this date, it's a massive display of fabricated material along with my personal information. It's main purpose is to torment me and ruin my reputation.

The most damaging information Dennis has on the website is some old court dockets that he managed to obtain under false pretenses. The cases detailed in the court dockets are offenses I was wrongly accused of and all but 2 of them I was later exonerated of. Despite the fact these cases were concocted 12 or 13 years ago and I haven't been accused of anything else since, Dennis still uses the old dockets to make me look like a criminal and to boost his credibility. He also refers to ME as the stalker when in fact I am not. The damage his lies have done to my reputation may be irreversible.

In addition, I'm an open target to other predators because of Dennis. Individuals whom I merely had disagreements with in the past have eagerly flocked to Dennis's side because they saw his sick website as a means of getting revenge against me. I'm not even sure how they found out about it but they did. Once they made the discovery, all they had to do was run to him with their complaints and they became instant victims even though in reality, they started all the arguments. Now, I can't even disagree with anybody else because if I do, the same thing will happen all over again.

Another incident happened recently involving a scam artist I got ripped off by. I wrote about this unsavory individual and Dennis found out about it while hunting me online. Dennis in turn made contact with this individual who saw a means of getting back at me for writing about him. So, he gave Dennis the address I used when I placed the order for the item I was expecting which actually is where a friend lives. I didn't want to use my real address and this friend was kind enough to let me use hers. Dennis attempted to blackmail me by threatening to publish the address if I didn't do what he wanted. He wants me to admit to things I never did and apologize when I shouldn't have to.

In the past and currently, Dennis has wrongly accused me of sending him porn, crude e-cards and e-mails, using fake e-mailers, infringing on his copyrights, committing libel against him, ect. The list just goes on despite the fact I have never done any of these things. All I ever did was cuss at Dennis when he refused to unsubscribe me from his group, create my own groups and websites as a self-defense measure against him, and I made rude comments about his deceased mother which I later on apologized for because I realized I was wrong for that. As for the rest of his accusations, it's complete rubbish. He has been desperately trying to get me to bend to his will for years but I refused because I know I'm in the right. Even though Dennis said he would take down his website and everything else if I do this, I simply can't sell my soul to the Devil hoping for a way out. I know Dennis would only use the false confessions against me anyway so it's not even an option.

I desperately want my life back but not at the price my stalker is asking. No victim should EVER do that! I have tried to fight back against my stalker by telling my side of the story and by reporting his actions to the local authorities but my efforts have failed to bring any positive results. There was a 7 year period when I thought I was finally rid of my stalker but he unfortunately came back with a vengeance after receiving a crude e-mail on Christmas Eve 2013 which he assumes I sent. I never sent him any e-mails and it would be crazy for me to initiate contact with my stalker after 7 years of peace and freedom. Dennis didn't see it that way however and despite the fact the headers of the e-mail in question show it was sent from a fake e-mailer, that's all the proof he needed to fraudulently link it to me and he found an excuse to resume his vicious attacks.

I wish with all my heart I had never joined his discussion group because now, I'm forced to serve a life sentence in the mental prison Dennis has created for me and I don't deserve it. He even went so far as to do a background check just to find out additional information he could use to track me including my home phone number which I was forced to change. I have PTSD and this is extremely hard for me to deal with on my own. My stalker just won't let me have my life back. Please, if there's anybody reading this who can help me get out of this living Hell, let me know. If there's some other method you know of that I haven't tried yet, I sure would appreciate you sharing that knowledge with me. The only options I seem to have besides exposing his abuse are either paying out thousands of dollars I don't have to a lawyer willing to take my case or continue praying for a miracle. Either way, I know something has to be done. There is a light at the end of the tunnel however. As a result of my stalker's abusive actions, I was inspired to create "Abuse Victims United" for not only myself but for other victims too. It is my greatest hope that we can all join together and help each other through our bad situations by standing up to our abusers and giving ourselves a voice.