Since this blog is mainly for anything having to do with my "Abuse Victims United" non-profit organization and I felt a separate blog should be created for a secondary purpose, I figured this was as good a time as any to announce my new blog "Reflections" which basically serves as my personal soapbox where I can speak my mind freely to the world:
http://experience-reflections.blogspot.com/
This is something I feel I have needed for quite some time since many have been duped into believing I'm a "stalker" thanks to the insane rants from my abuser Dennis P. McCann. He has deliberately cast a negative image of me as I have stated several times before and I felt it was time to present a more accurate image of myself. I no longer have a damn thing to lose so I might as well just open the flood gates and see how many bridges I can tear down. Stay tuned to this blog for future announcements, news, or anything else "Abuse Victims United" related. Thank you!
Abuse Victims United is a non-profit organization which provides help and support to abuse victims both online and off. I would like to note that my stalker Dennis P. McCann has made erroneous statements that this organization is fake. Abuse Victims United is 100% legitimate despite his false claims! Furthermore, the false claims stem from the fact that my stalker is jealous and he doesn't want me to rise above his abuse.
Saturday, April 19, 2014
Thursday, April 10, 2014
Rip-Off Report Extortionist Ed Magedson: Abuser, Criminal, & King Of Crap!
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Wednesday, April 9, 2014
Third Update!
I changed web hosting providers and the settings to my domain as well. Now whenever someone types in "abusevictimsunited.com", it leads to the official site rather than this blog which is how I had originally intended it but I was unable to change the settings before. I know my stalker has issued threats to have any new website I create under my domain shut down but I don't really care about his mindless rambling anymore. It doesn't concern me whatsoever because I thought ahead and asked a customer service rep at the new hosting service what was acceptable and what wasn't. I also stated I didn't want to violate any Terms Of Service. The conversation took place through their online chat server and I was able to show them a copy of the text I planned to use. Luckily, I got the green light to post it and I also was told that posting a person's full name on the site isn't against their Terms Of Service. So if my stalker tries to whine like a baby brat to these people about me again, I'm fully prepared:) I saved a screen capture of the conversation too in case I need to use it as proof that I did in fact get permission to post what I want. You know, I really do feel sorry for my stalker because he has no real life of his own to focus on. If he took enough time to focus on HIS OWN life and less on MINE, I think he would eventually get over his obsession with me so we both can move on. In view of my stalker's repeated attempts to degrade my organization, I would like to state the following about "Abuse Victims United". This IS a legitimate non-profit organization despite my stalker's claims to the contrary and even though his abuse is what inspired me to create it, it's NOT really about him singularly. It's about ALL the abusers out there who think they have the right to hurt innocent people for sport. The abusers who hunt us like prey and post libelous things about us online designed to disintegrate our reputations and our lives need to be stopped! The abusers who make our offline lives unbearable need to be brought to justice! Everyone who suffers from emotional trauma as the direct result of abusive situations need a place to go for help. This is what "Abuse Victims United" is all about. My stalker wrongly assumes it's intended to be an attack on HIM but he's 100% wrong about that. He just needs to believe that it's true and make others think on the same level because he assumes it gives him power to slam what I'm trying to actually do here while his fans cheer him on. His fan base seems to be dwindling down though and I suspect it will go down further in the long run. I can only hope and pray for it.
Tuesday, April 8, 2014
Second Update!
Well, I figured out a little trick which makes it so my stalker can't
interfere with my domain anymore. It's called a clever redirect which
means that whenever my domain name is typed in with or without the "www"
added, people will be directed to this blog. Also, I created a
companion website for this blog which will serve as the official "Abuse
Victims United" website. I might consider redirecting my domain to the
new site but I haven't decided yet. Here's the link anyway:
Abuse Victims United Official Website
Considering I have worked on it for only a few hours, I think it turned out quite well:)
Abuse Victims United Official Website
Considering I have worked on it for only a few hours, I think it turned out quite well:)
Important Update!
I successfully managed to get my domain hosted somewhere else. At the current time however, the website is experiencing technical difficulties which I hope to remedy soon. In the meantime, here's the URL:
Abuse Victims United
The "www" must be added to access the website because not typing it in will take you to a dead page. I'm going to notify the new hosting service ASAP that my stalker might try to infiltrate things again by filing a false report against the website so they will at least be aware of it. The more my stalker attacks me, the more he's going to show the world that he is in fact the REAL stalker and I will be prompted to fight harder to protect what is mine. I find it really amazing how my stalker thinks he has a right to commit libel against ME while at the same time claiming that this is being done to HIM. He thinks he has the right to post filthy lies about me and run my reputation along with my birth name into the ground. When I dare to post HIS name on a website however, he feels the need to stifle me just like he has done several times during the past 14 years. Why is it all fine and dandy for HIM to post my birth name on his disgusting website repeatedly but yet I'M prevented from using his precious name in a single paragraph? I guess it's because he's the almighty "Dennis P. McCann" who constantly boasts about "being a University Professor with paintings on 5 continents" as if those so-called accomplishments are supposed to make him more important than the rest of us. Personally, I think despite all of this bullshit he brags about ad nauseam, he's so miserable that attacking me gives his life purpose. He's jealous and extremely intimidated by me as proven by his recent attack against my "Abuse Victims United" website. I stated on the website before he filed his bogus complaint that if he were to get the website shut down, it will not only give more credibility to what I'm saying about him but it will also prove that he has something to hide. Only someone with something to hide will try and silence the opposition and my stalker proved me right on both counts. I'm not sure what the future will bring but if it comes down to it, I will point my domain to a place that he can't infiltrate like this blog perhaps or maybe I can just use HIS domain hosting service since they don't seem to give a shit what the hell is being hosted on their servers. Either way, I secured more leverage by registering an official domain and I fully intend to use it to my advantage. What my stalker fails to realize is that no matter what attacks he decides to launch, I'll be ready to defend myself while at the same time, giving him enough rope to hang himself with. Stay tuned to this blog for further updates.
Abuse Victims United
The "www" must be added to access the website because not typing it in will take you to a dead page. I'm going to notify the new hosting service ASAP that my stalker might try to infiltrate things again by filing a false report against the website so they will at least be aware of it. The more my stalker attacks me, the more he's going to show the world that he is in fact the REAL stalker and I will be prompted to fight harder to protect what is mine. I find it really amazing how my stalker thinks he has a right to commit libel against ME while at the same time claiming that this is being done to HIM. He thinks he has the right to post filthy lies about me and run my reputation along with my birth name into the ground. When I dare to post HIS name on a website however, he feels the need to stifle me just like he has done several times during the past 14 years. Why is it all fine and dandy for HIM to post my birth name on his disgusting website repeatedly but yet I'M prevented from using his precious name in a single paragraph? I guess it's because he's the almighty "Dennis P. McCann" who constantly boasts about "being a University Professor with paintings on 5 continents" as if those so-called accomplishments are supposed to make him more important than the rest of us. Personally, I think despite all of this bullshit he brags about ad nauseam, he's so miserable that attacking me gives his life purpose. He's jealous and extremely intimidated by me as proven by his recent attack against my "Abuse Victims United" website. I stated on the website before he filed his bogus complaint that if he were to get the website shut down, it will not only give more credibility to what I'm saying about him but it will also prove that he has something to hide. Only someone with something to hide will try and silence the opposition and my stalker proved me right on both counts. I'm not sure what the future will bring but if it comes down to it, I will point my domain to a place that he can't infiltrate like this blog perhaps or maybe I can just use HIS domain hosting service since they don't seem to give a shit what the hell is being hosted on their servers. Either way, I secured more leverage by registering an official domain and I fully intend to use it to my advantage. What my stalker fails to realize is that no matter what attacks he decides to launch, I'll be ready to defend myself while at the same time, giving him enough rope to hang himself with. Stay tuned to this blog for further updates.
Monday, April 7, 2014
The Founder Noel A. Bednaz's Story.
My stalker Dennis P. McCann recently infiltrated my new website "AbuseVictimsUnited.com" because he is scared to death of facing the truth about his abusive actions. Also, he hated the fact that I was rising above his abuse by creating a non-profit organization for other victims like myself. Now, I have to fight to get reinstated or choose another web hosting service. Either way, "Abuse Victims United" will NOT die! My stalker has proven something very significant by launching this recent attack against me. He has proven to be the aggressor by trying to stifle me. He doesn't want MY side of the story to be told because God forbid if someone just might believe ME and not HIM! His little dark world will crumble and he knows it. So, this is why he feels the need to attack me repeatedly in hopes that I will lay down and die for him. Well, that's just NOT going to happen and 1 way or another, I WILL get back up again regardless if he likes it or not;) Please read my TRUE story below and stay tuned to this blog for future updates regarding this issue. Also, if you have a story of abuse you wish to share, please feel free to leave me a comment. You can remain anonymous if you choose. Thanks!
This is a rather long story but it needs to be told. I'll try to be as brief and to the point as possible. 14 years ago, I became the target of a severely disturbed cyber stalker named Dennis. It all started when I joined his John Lennon discussion group at Yahoo. In the beginning, the discussions were good and I was enjoying myself. Then 1 day, another group member and I began an innocent discussion about cats. For whatever reason, this upset Dennis and he let us know it. I admit, I did get quite irritated with him because instead of asking us nicely to take the cat discussion privately, he barked out orders like a dictator. After some harsh words were exchanged, I demanded to be unsubscribed from the group which Dennis refused to do until he had enough reason to ban me. He kept pushing all my buttons to achieve his goal. Even though I was no longer in the group, Dennis continued to bash me to the other members and 1 of them came forward to let me know about it. Since the group archives were public, I could see what Dennis was saying about me. My character was being defamed and threats were being issued against me and my family by Dennis. I promptly reported his actions to Yahoo for a "Terms Of Service" violation and they terminated his account. This resulted in Dennis losing the John Lennon group I had previously been subscribed to plus all others he managed. Dennis became irate after losing all of his groups and this is when he launched his campaign against me. A libelous website was created and as of this date, it's a massive display of fabricated material along with my personal information. It's main purpose is to torment me and ruin my reputation.
The most damaging information Dennis has on the website is some old court dockets that he managed to obtain under false pretenses. The cases detailed in the court dockets are offenses I was wrongly accused of and all but 2 of them I was later exonerated of. Despite the fact these cases were concocted 12 or 13 years ago and I haven't been accused of anything else since, Dennis still uses the old dockets to make me look like a criminal and to boost his credibility. He also refers to ME as the stalker when in fact I am not. The damage his lies have done to my reputation may be irreversible.
In addition, I'm an open target to other predators because of Dennis. Individuals whom I merely had disagreements with in the past have eagerly flocked to Dennis's side because they saw his sick website as a means of getting revenge against me. I'm not even sure how they found out about it but they did. Once they made the discovery, all they had to do was run to him with their complaints and they became instant victims even though in reality, they started all the arguments. Now, I can't even disagree with anybody else because if I do, the same thing will happen all over again.
Another incident happened recently involving a scam artist I got ripped off by. I wrote about this unsavory individual and Dennis found out about it while hunting me online. Dennis in turn made contact with this individual who saw a means of getting back at me for writing about him. So, he gave Dennis the address I used when I placed the order for the item I was expecting which actually is where a friend lives. I didn't want to use my real address and this friend was kind enough to let me use hers. Dennis attempted to blackmail me by threatening to publish the address if I didn't do what he wanted. He wants me to admit to things I never did and apologize when I shouldn't have to.
In the past and currently, Dennis has wrongly accused me of sending him porn, crude e-cards and e-mails, using fake e-mailers, infringing on his copyrights, committing libel against him, ect. The list just goes on despite the fact I have never done any of these things. All I ever did was cuss at Dennis when he refused to unsubscribe me from his group, create my own groups and websites as a self-defense measure against him, and I made rude comments about his deceased mother which I later on apologized for because I realized I was wrong for that. As for the rest of his accusations, it's complete rubbish. He has been desperately trying to get me to bend to his will for years but I refused because I know I'm in the right. Even though Dennis said he would take down his website and everything else if I do this, I simply can't sell my soul to the Devil hoping for a way out. I know Dennis would only use the false confessions against me anyway so it's not even an option.
I desperately want my life back but not at the price my stalker is asking. No victim should EVER do that! I have tried to fight back against my stalker by telling my side of the story and by reporting his actions to the local authorities but my efforts have failed to bring any positive results. There was a 7 year period when I thought I was finally rid of my stalker but he unfortunately came back with a vengeance after receiving a crude e-mail on Christmas Eve 2013 which he assumes I sent. I never sent him any e-mails and it would be crazy for me to initiate contact with my stalker after 7 years of peace and freedom. Dennis didn't see it that way however and despite the fact the headers of the e-mail in question show it was sent from a fake e-mailer, that's all the proof he needed to fraudulently link it to me and he found an excuse to resume his vicious attacks.
I wish with all my heart I had never joined his discussion group because now, I'm forced to serve a life sentence in the mental prison Dennis has created for me and I don't deserve it. He even went so far as to do a background check just to find out additional information he could use to track me including my home phone number which I was forced to change. I have PTSD and this is extremely hard for me to deal with on my own. My stalker just won't let me have my life back. Please, if there's anybody reading this who can help me get out of this living Hell, let me know. If there's some other method you know of that I haven't tried yet, I sure would appreciate you sharing that knowledge with me. The only options I seem to have besides exposing his abuse are either paying out thousands of dollars I don't have to a lawyer willing to take my case or continue praying for a miracle. Either way, I know something has to be done. There is a light at the end of the tunnel however. As a result of my stalker's abusive actions, I was inspired to create "Abuse Victims United" for not only myself but for other victims too. It is my greatest hope that we can all join together and help each other through our bad situations by standing up to our abusers and giving ourselves a voice.
This is a rather long story but it needs to be told. I'll try to be as brief and to the point as possible. 14 years ago, I became the target of a severely disturbed cyber stalker named Dennis. It all started when I joined his John Lennon discussion group at Yahoo. In the beginning, the discussions were good and I was enjoying myself. Then 1 day, another group member and I began an innocent discussion about cats. For whatever reason, this upset Dennis and he let us know it. I admit, I did get quite irritated with him because instead of asking us nicely to take the cat discussion privately, he barked out orders like a dictator. After some harsh words were exchanged, I demanded to be unsubscribed from the group which Dennis refused to do until he had enough reason to ban me. He kept pushing all my buttons to achieve his goal. Even though I was no longer in the group, Dennis continued to bash me to the other members and 1 of them came forward to let me know about it. Since the group archives were public, I could see what Dennis was saying about me. My character was being defamed and threats were being issued against me and my family by Dennis. I promptly reported his actions to Yahoo for a "Terms Of Service" violation and they terminated his account. This resulted in Dennis losing the John Lennon group I had previously been subscribed to plus all others he managed. Dennis became irate after losing all of his groups and this is when he launched his campaign against me. A libelous website was created and as of this date, it's a massive display of fabricated material along with my personal information. It's main purpose is to torment me and ruin my reputation.
The most damaging information Dennis has on the website is some old court dockets that he managed to obtain under false pretenses. The cases detailed in the court dockets are offenses I was wrongly accused of and all but 2 of them I was later exonerated of. Despite the fact these cases were concocted 12 or 13 years ago and I haven't been accused of anything else since, Dennis still uses the old dockets to make me look like a criminal and to boost his credibility. He also refers to ME as the stalker when in fact I am not. The damage his lies have done to my reputation may be irreversible.
In addition, I'm an open target to other predators because of Dennis. Individuals whom I merely had disagreements with in the past have eagerly flocked to Dennis's side because they saw his sick website as a means of getting revenge against me. I'm not even sure how they found out about it but they did. Once they made the discovery, all they had to do was run to him with their complaints and they became instant victims even though in reality, they started all the arguments. Now, I can't even disagree with anybody else because if I do, the same thing will happen all over again.
Another incident happened recently involving a scam artist I got ripped off by. I wrote about this unsavory individual and Dennis found out about it while hunting me online. Dennis in turn made contact with this individual who saw a means of getting back at me for writing about him. So, he gave Dennis the address I used when I placed the order for the item I was expecting which actually is where a friend lives. I didn't want to use my real address and this friend was kind enough to let me use hers. Dennis attempted to blackmail me by threatening to publish the address if I didn't do what he wanted. He wants me to admit to things I never did and apologize when I shouldn't have to.
In the past and currently, Dennis has wrongly accused me of sending him porn, crude e-cards and e-mails, using fake e-mailers, infringing on his copyrights, committing libel against him, ect. The list just goes on despite the fact I have never done any of these things. All I ever did was cuss at Dennis when he refused to unsubscribe me from his group, create my own groups and websites as a self-defense measure against him, and I made rude comments about his deceased mother which I later on apologized for because I realized I was wrong for that. As for the rest of his accusations, it's complete rubbish. He has been desperately trying to get me to bend to his will for years but I refused because I know I'm in the right. Even though Dennis said he would take down his website and everything else if I do this, I simply can't sell my soul to the Devil hoping for a way out. I know Dennis would only use the false confessions against me anyway so it's not even an option.
I desperately want my life back but not at the price my stalker is asking. No victim should EVER do that! I have tried to fight back against my stalker by telling my side of the story and by reporting his actions to the local authorities but my efforts have failed to bring any positive results. There was a 7 year period when I thought I was finally rid of my stalker but he unfortunately came back with a vengeance after receiving a crude e-mail on Christmas Eve 2013 which he assumes I sent. I never sent him any e-mails and it would be crazy for me to initiate contact with my stalker after 7 years of peace and freedom. Dennis didn't see it that way however and despite the fact the headers of the e-mail in question show it was sent from a fake e-mailer, that's all the proof he needed to fraudulently link it to me and he found an excuse to resume his vicious attacks.
I wish with all my heart I had never joined his discussion group because now, I'm forced to serve a life sentence in the mental prison Dennis has created for me and I don't deserve it. He even went so far as to do a background check just to find out additional information he could use to track me including my home phone number which I was forced to change. I have PTSD and this is extremely hard for me to deal with on my own. My stalker just won't let me have my life back. Please, if there's anybody reading this who can help me get out of this living Hell, let me know. If there's some other method you know of that I haven't tried yet, I sure would appreciate you sharing that knowledge with me. The only options I seem to have besides exposing his abuse are either paying out thousands of dollars I don't have to a lawyer willing to take my case or continue praying for a miracle. Either way, I know something has to be done. There is a light at the end of the tunnel however. As a result of my stalker's abusive actions, I was inspired to create "Abuse Victims United" for not only myself but for other victims too. It is my greatest hope that we can all join together and help each other through our bad situations by standing up to our abusers and giving ourselves a voice.
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